tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-80890305412426430882024-02-19T18:11:32.853-05:00Chasing SamarasUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-2606399421385337252017-08-12T23:35:00.000-04:002017-08-12T23:46:55.827-04:00Summer Writing Day<div class="MsoNormal">
Up at 7 a.m.: shower, coffee, kids packing up gear. <i>Where are my water shoes? </i>one asks. But
you’re looking for that thing you wrote—the one you thought of last night, as
you drifted off to sleep—but it’s an old thing. There’s surely a file,
somewhere, but not on the current computer. Maybe on a flash drive? <i>Where is that joke book I got at the little free
library?</i> <i>I can’t find my water
bottle. </i>Everyone in the house is looking for something.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Gulp coffee, a shredded wheat biscuit. Wait, wasn’t it
published somewhere, that thing you wrote? In some anthology? Root through
drawers of journals and books while shouting at the kids that they 5 minutes
left before their spaceship departs. Yes, here is the book, published in 2012.
That means you sent someone a file at some point, right? Search through emails
for the editor’s name. Yes, here’s the file, in an email from 2010. Save a copy
of the file on current computer.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Are the kids ready? No, the kids aren’t ready. The kids are
still eating shredded wheat and haven’t put on their sunscreen or their water
shoes. Hurry, push them out the door, into the spaceship, which is really a
minivan. They apply sunscreen and put on shoes as you drive “over the mountain,” as
the locals say, into Avon and Canton and then Collinsville. There is really no mountain
here at all—it’s a hill at best—but you’ve taken to calling it “the mountain”
too because it’s the only one you’ve got. On the 10-mile drive listen to an
audiobook—halfway there <i>The Nest </i>by
Kenneth Oppel ends, and daughter puts in disc 1 of <i>The Hobbit, </i>which they’ve already heard because you’ve read them
the entire <i>Lord of the Rings</i>. The
kids comment that Rob Inglis has a better accent than you, can do voices better
than you, and can sing better than you—but they prefer you anyway.<i> </i>Drop kids off at kayaking camp 5
minutes late. They’re the last ones there.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Drive to Panera to get a latte—but really to kill time until
the Canton library opens. You’re outside the library doors when they’re
unlocked, and you’re the first one in, moving quickly to your carrel, the one
by the window, where you set up your computer. You wonder if the reference
librarian wonders about you—the person who has spent exactly 2 hours and 20
minutes typing feverishly on a laptop every day for five days. You wonder if
she remembers you from last summer when you did the same thing, 2 hours and 20
minutes a day X 5 days. You never set foot in this library except during kayak
camp week.<o:p></o:p></div>
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You open all the files you’re working on. You read the file
you found this morning only to discover that what you wrote 7 years ago isn’t
what you thought it was. Only to discover that there are no shortcuts, that now
you’ll simply have to write the thing you thought it was. The thing you should
have written in the first place. But you can’t wish writing into the world. You
have to put it down, word by word, like laying bricks. You can’t wish a brick
wall into existence either.<o:p></o:p></div>
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As you work, you overhear every conversation that the
reference librarian has with patrons. By the end of the week, you know about
her son’s medical history, the films she’s watched recently, where to buy a
good pie, the best program for learning Portuguese quickly, where to take a car
that has an automatic window stuck halfway down, and the territorial robin that
thinks her birdbath is its nest. You hear these conversations, but you still work.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The big thing you’re writing—whatever it is—has become
shockingly long, which probably means it’s that thing that begins with a B, but
you don’t normally call it that. It started out in April as an essay, but then
by the time you sent it to your writing group in May it had ballooned beyond
essay—nearly 25,000 words!—to become some kind of monstrous essayvella. Your
writing group said things you didn’t really want to hear—that there were too
many things going on, that it was more than one essay, that it could be
fractured apart into 3 or 7 or 10 essays, or that maybe there was a way to
bring it all together but it needed organization and more about x, y, z—and then
you resisted this advice for two days but finally capitulated because they were
right and you decided you were writing some kind of triptych—a thing with three
parts—but now it’s broken itself into four, and it still isn’t finished.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Actually, it began the day after Trump was elected, when you
started a new file that was full of pasted bits of things you found online with
your own added incoherence. But the thing isn’t about Trump at all—his name is
never even mentioned once—so how can that be the beginning?<o:p></o:p></div>
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Actually, it started 6 years ago when you wrote in the
notebook you were carrying around with you back then: <i>write an essay about dolls. </i>And the thing you’re writing is about
dolls—or it was—only it’s not anymore, not really, and your writing group told
you so at the last meeting when you gave them 32,000 mostly new words, so how
can that be the beginning?<o:p></o:p></div>
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Actually, it began in childhood when you tried to write a
novel about a crazy doll collector named Mrs. Buckett and when you began to
document the events of your life for some inscrutable future, driven by a need
to make notes for some unknown but necessary story TBD, TBA. Only you had no
idea why you were writing, or what was important, or how it would all come
together. For example, did you really need to write down that on November 3,
1984, you learned to play “Cadet Boogie” on the accordion and you got a new pen
and you went to the library and you went to the New York Pizzeria and your
brother ate all the pepperoni off the pizza and you took a shower and washed
your hair and your bangs need to be cut? Probably not. You had no idea what you
were doing, or why, so how can that be the beginning?<o:p></o:p></div>
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You still don’t know what you’re doing, or why, but in that
2 hours and 20 minutes you write the part that you thought maybe you had
already written, 7 years ago, and then you pick the kids up from kayak camp,
and you drive them back over the mountain. They are wet and tired and hungry,
but Rob Inglis’s commanding voice speaking of Bilbo Baggins keeps them
captivated. At home they’ll need to be fed, but they’re old enough to forage,
so they do. You have no idea what they eat. Mostly bread? Leftovers? One of
them—the one that eats cherries—is spitting pits in the backyard. The other one
is slicing a pear. They are fine, so you will write a little more. There’s just
a little more you want to do.<o:p></o:p></div>
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You write at a desk in the living room, because you have no
study, no room of your own, so the kids move about the house around you, and
you occasionally field their questions. <i>Do
you want to play Mexican Train with me? </i>Yes, but later. <i>Do we have any more naan bread in the
downstairs freezer? </i>Not sure, go check. <i>Where’s
that book about solar eclipses? </i>Check the bedside table. The daughter cocoons
herself in the hammock out back to read, and the son works on the custom shoe
rack he’s building for his room, which means that he gets out the Deep River blue
paint that he picked out at Home Depot to paint it with, which means that he
covers himself in Deep River blue paint, but he is outside and happy, so you
can get work done. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<i>I think we’ve run out
of frozen peas. </i>OK, put them on the list. <i>Can you tell if this water bottle has BPA in it? </i>Let me take a
look. <i>Can you open this jar of yeast? </i>Probably.
<i>Will you have time to read to us later? </i>Wouldn’t
you prefer Rob Inglis? <i>No, we prefer you!
</i>Yes, we’ll read before bed.<o:p></o:p></div>
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You check in on your online class. The students are writing
beautiful essays about blended families and trees and racism and religion and
elderly parents and sex and addiction and childhood. You read a couple of their
pieces, post comments. Then check your email. What are the details about a
reading you’re planning this fall? You respond. Will you write a letter of
recommendation for a former student applying to Ph.D. programs? You will. Check
Facebook. Will you review an essay written by a non-native speaker of English?
You can’t, no time. Sorry. You have a deadline: in 3 weeks, you head back to
the classroom. There’s never enough time for all of it—all of the demands and
requests.<o:p></o:p></div>
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You take a break to play Mexican Train, then Five Crowns
with the kids. One of them is making bread, so he runs off to punch down his
dough. The other says she needs to do her 30 minutes of algebra for the day. Start
a load of laundry. Assign a few chores: take out the trash, clean the counter,
sweep the stairs, fold the dish towels. Go back to your computer, work another
half hour. <o:p></o:p></div>
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You’ve been doing
this for over a dozen years now, and you’re no longer a special snowflake when
it comes to getting work done. You no longer need a secluded room, perfect
quiet, a cup of tea with a matching saucer, a good frame of mind. You know now
that the room of your own is in your head, and the time to write is now. In the
summer the room of your own is the Canton library during kayak camp and the
Wethersfield library during writing camp and poolside during swim team practice
and the bleachers during softball practice and Panera and the patio in the
backyard and the living room and in bed at night with the laptop propped up on
your knees. If you wait for the perfect time or perfect place, you will wait
for years. You will wait until the house is clean and the stuff all organized, put
away in tidy labeled bins, and the laundry and dishes are done and the counters
are spotless. You will wait until your kids grow up and leave home. You will
wait until you can stop working other jobs. You will wait until you are dead.</div>
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You finish one little bit, and then it’s time to think about
dinner. What’s for dinner? Never mind, daughter has made dinner. Son has made
fresh bread. Husband joins you for a family meal, another round of Mexican
Train.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The evening is theirs: a walk around the neighborhood, a
book before bed. Tonight, it’s <i>The Rithmatist
</i>by Brandon Sanderson. Daughter knits a scarf and son sketches while you
read. Before lights out, you do your nightly writing, the three of you
together. You’re in your third year of writing every night with the kids. <i>What happened today? </i>they always ask, so
you review the day for them. And then you write—just five lines—but it’s
something. Will you ever need to know that you listened to <i>The Hobbit </i>on audiobook and your son painted his shoe rack Deep
River blue and you made small baby steps of progress on the thing that you
still stubbornly call an essay? Probably not. But in case you do, there’s a
record.</div>
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In bed, laptop on knees, you read over the new parts of the
thing. You allow yourself to peek at your current word count—74,039—so it
probably really is that B-word, but you will keep deluding yourself and calling
it your essay, because an essay seems containable, possible, something you
could finish, something with an end, something you could conceivably write in a
season. Or two. Or a year. It’s already so long, but you begin to wonder if you
need even more about x, even though x was supposed to be a different thing, a
new writing project altogether. Just as the writing expands to fill all corners
of your life, the thing seems to be expanding to encompass everything. This
thing—this non-essay, this B-word, this memoir-y thing—is starting to be about
everything, because in a life everything is connected to everything else. How
do you declare: this is related to that, but not that? How do you draw the
lines between projects, create the demarcations between one B-word and another?
How much of this thing do you keep, and how much do you take out and put away
for later? This is what you will think about, as you drift toward sleep. Maybe
it began four months ago, or nine, or six years ago, or thirty, and maybe you’ll
never know when and where it began, but you will keep working on this thing, you
will keep kneading and shaping it until you figure out what it is. You will see
it through to the end. Tomorrow. Or the day after tomorrow. Or the day after
that. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-75906634589265275132016-07-28T18:20:00.000-04:002016-07-28T18:21:05.772-04:00A Flower for Ms. Rossi<i>May, 2016</i><br />
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It’s Wednesday of teacher appreciation week at my kids’ elementary school, which means that we’re in a scramble to find a flower. This happens every year. Wednesday is “bring your teacher a flower day,” and we’re never prepared.<br />
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We’ve got all the other days down—bring a handmade card on Monday, wear your teacher’s favorite color on Tuesday, give your teacher a homemade meal on Thursday (luckily, the room parents coordinate this one), show your talent on Friday—but flower day always catches us off guard.<br />
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The idea is that each child will bring a flower, creating a lovely bouquet for the teacher to decorate her classroom and then take home with her.<br />
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But first of all, we don’t just have flowers lying around the house. And second, I’m not a fan of cut flowers.<br />
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One year, I rushed off the grocery store late on Tuesday night to get flowers—and ended up bringing home two large potted roses, which the kids hauled into school the next day and presented to their astonished teachers. Another year, we made paper flowers, because, as I told the kids, they will last longer than cut flowers (and we do happen to have a lot of paper around the house).<br />
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But now, as night is falling and bedtime approaching on Tuesday, we’re out of ideas. We do have tulips growing in the backyard, so the kids briefly entertain the idea of digging up a couple of tulip bulbs and sticking them in pots, but digging in the dark doesn’t appeal to me. Besides, there isn’t much time.<br />
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Then I spot my daughter’s amaryllis sitting in a pot by her window. She’s carefully hand pollinated the plant and collected its papery seeds in a small box. I have an idea.<br />
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“What if we give your teachers not a flower, per se, but the promise of a flower?” I suggest.<br />
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We do a quick online search for instructions on sprouting amaryllis seeds. It doesn’t sound that hard. The kids place a handful of the seeds in small packets and write notes.<br />
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<i>Here is the beginning of your bouquet of the future. These are amaryllis seeds from my plant at home. To begin your bouquet, follow these steps.</i><br />
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The kids put their notes and seed packets into envelopes. My son writes, “Mrs. O’s flower” on his. “A bouquet for those with patience,” my daughter writes.<br />
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“I like it that my flower has never been a part of the class bouquet,” she tells me. “I like to be different.”<br />
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After the kids have gone off on the bus, I scan through Facebook postings and see a couple from Ms. Rossi, my old high school teacher. She’s posted a photograph of her teaching contract with the following item checked:<br />
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<i>I hereby retire from my position effective at the end of the current 2015-16 school year.</i><br />
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In a separate post, she’s written the following:<br />
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<i>So, I have a favor to ask of the past students who are my FB friends. I would love to have you send me a note telling me when and where I taught you, anything memorable about that time, what you did after high school, and what you are doing now. I think I will create a project for myself and compile all the notes in a scrapbook. Thanks!</i><br />
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Ms. Rossi has been my Facebook friend since 2010, but I haven’t seen her in person since I graduated from high school over twenty years ago. She’s about the age of my mother, her daughter is about my age, and her grandsons are about the age of my kids. So I often see pictures of her grandsons playing baseball in California, and she sometimes comments on status updates about my kids in Connecticut. That’s been the extent of our communication for the past few years. I moved away from my California hometown sixteen years ago and haven’t set foot in my high school for even longer.<br />
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And yet, as I read over her post, I know immediately that I have to contribute to her project. If anyone deserves a flower during teacher appreciation week, it’s Ms. Rossi.<br />
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When I first walked into my honors world history class as a freshman, I was met by a demanding, intimidating teacher. Though small in stature, Ms. Rossi was stern and formidable, her presence immense. Her standards were high, impeccable. With two decades of teaching experience under her belt, she knew how to command a classroom. She wore her long salt-and-pepper hair in tight curls, and her black piercing eyes bore into me with disapproval.<br />
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I try to imagine how I first appeared to Ms. Rossi: sullen, quiet, defiant, disenchanted, slinking in and out of the room, avoiding her, avoiding school, avoiding everything. I came to class smelling of cigarettes, wearing heavy metal band t-shirts, acid-washed jeans, and a long black trench coat—when I came to class at all. I was terrified to face her wrath after missing assignments, missing class. Whereas most of my teachers seemed to quickly give up on me, Ms. Rossi’s simmering anger with me only increased.<br />
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I didn’t like Ms. Rossi, not at all. And I had the feeling that she didn’t like me. <br />
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It wasn’t that I was incapable of doing the work. It was that I was lost, adrift, unable to see my way out of the prison that my large, public high school seemed to be.<br />
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In Ms. Rossi’s class, I turned in nearly flawless work—or no work at all. <br />
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“Wow! A very nice job! Good use of vocabulary, well developed!” Ms. Rossi wrote on a paper about Chinese paragons that I completed in October of my freshman year. “Whoa! Learn to limit yourself!” she wrote on a lengthy paper I turned in the following month about Japanese peasants in the 1600s. Both papers earned perfect scores. (And yes, I still have those papers, as well as others.) <br />
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When I did the work, I earned high scores. When I didn’t do work, I got zeroes. And more and more, as my freshman year wore on, I didn’t do the work. And I didn’t go to class. <br />
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I had a biology teacher who asked me to tell him stories of my exploits, and so I would tell him about cutting class to smoke in the bathroom and jumping over the fence to get off campus, to get as far away as possible from the revolving series of deadening classes that seemed to have nothing to do with the adolescent turmoil that was consuming me from within. The fact that a couple thousand teenagers were all locked up together for eight hours a day and marched from room to room every fifty minutes seemed unbearably inhumane to me. High school was containment, prison. I told my biology teacher stories of stealing liquor and getting drunk and running away from home. He gave me an undeserved D in honors biology, either for my storytelling abilities, or out of sheer pity.<br />
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Ms. Rossi didn’t award pity grades, and she would have been disgusted by my stories, if I ever dared tell them to her. In her class, you performed, or you failed. And I was failing. It was likely Ms. Rossi would soon be gone from my life for good. And that was just fine. I never wanted to see her—or my high school—again.<br />
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***<br />
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There’s more to the story about the amaryllis plant.<br />
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A year and a half ago, my daughter performed in a children’s production of <i>High School Musical, Jr.</i> When I arrived at the performance, I realized I was just about the only parent not holding a lavish bouquet of flowers to hand to my child at the conclusion of the show.<br />
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I still had about half an hour before the curtain went up, so I dashed to a nearby grocery store where I agonized over the cut flower options. I picked up a bouquet, put it back, picked up another bouquet, then put that one back—until I was nearly out of time. I just couldn’t bring myself to buy cut flowers, but I didn’t want to return to the theater empty handed.<br />
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None of the potted plants looked appealing—they were all too large or withered or ferny. And that’s when I found a burlap sack that contained, according to the affixed tag, an amaryllis bulb and dirt.<br />
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We already had an amaryllis growing at home—my son’s birth flower that was given to me right after he was born—and I knew my daughter would like to have her own. So I grabbed the burlap sack and headed for the checkout line.<br />
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The cashier paused to look at my singular purchase. <br />
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“My mother has an amaryllis that she keeps by the woodstove all winter,” he told me. “It makes the most beautiful flowers I’ve ever seen.”<br />
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“How old is it?” I asked. The man was older than me, and I could only guess that his mother was elderly.<br />
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“Oh, maybe forty years?” he said. “Maybe more?”<br />
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“Same bulb?” I asked.<br />
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“Same exact bulb,” he told me. “Who knows—this one could last just as long. Or even longer.” <br />
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Feeling more confident with my purchase, I headed back to the theater. Only now, there were even more beaming, proud parents holding even more ostentatious bouquets clutched in their laps. <br />
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My burlap sack was clearly out of place. I pushed it far under my chair where no one could see it.<br />
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After the show, I sheepishly presented it to my daughter, explaining that it would be an amaryllis flower—eventually—but for now it was a bulb and some dirt. <br />
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She beamed.<br />
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Another parent came up to her to praise her performance. “What do you have there?” the mom asked, eyeing the burlap sack.<br />
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“My mom gave me a sack of dirt!” she exclaimed, her smile stretching practically ear to ear. “Isn’t that awesome?” <br />
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At home, she planted the bulb in a pot and carefully tended to it. <br />
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Four months later, the amaryllis bloomed, just in time for her birthday. <br />
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“I’m glad I had to wait this long to get my flower,” she told me.<br />
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By the end of my freshman year, I stopped attending school altogether. A long, rough summer followed. In August, my mother took me back to Russia, still the Soviet Union then. It was her native land and my birthplace. And it was a place where the most basic tasks—like getting food or medical care—were inordinately difficult. We stood in long lines for meat and mayonnaise. My grandmother’s hands shook uncontrollably from Parkinson’s, and my grandfather had a bad heart. My ennui and sullenness began to evaporate. High school went from being the source of all torment in my life to an inconvenience. There were other struggles, I saw, that were much more real and significant.<br />
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Still, I didn’t want to go back to school. There were meetings with my guidance counselor. At fifteen, I was too young to drop out. Wasn’t there anything I wanted to do? my parents and counselor asked me. I didn’t have to take honors classes, I didn’t have to be in the International Baccalaureate program, but I had to go back to school.<br />
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Yes, I told them. There was one thing I wanted to do: write for the school newspaper. Writing: that was the only thing I wanted to do, the only thing I would go back for. And I didn’t want to write papers and essays for mere grades; I wanted to write pieces that would be published. I wanted to do the kind of writing that mattered.<br />
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But there was one glitch: Ms. Rossi was the newspaper advisor. And she let in students at her discretion. I would have to approach her and ask to join the newspaper staff.<br />
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After my dismal performance freshman year, I was certain that she would turn me down, certain that this one thing that I wanted to do, this one thing that mattered, would be shut off to me. And I would remain lost. <br />
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I came to her classroom during the lunch period. She was sitting at her desk, and I remember standing there, looking down at her, mumbling something about wanting to write for the newspaper. I remember her dark eyes boring into me for a long time as she considered her answer. She asked me if I was sure. She stressed the importance of attendance and hard work and making deadlines. Newspaper was a team effort, and newspaper deadlines were even more important than deadlines for class assignments. Yes, I told her, I knew that. This was precisely what I wanted: important deadlines, a sense that I was doing something meaningful. I didn't say all of this, though. I remember mostly nodding, agreeing with all of her warnings and admonitions. <br />
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I don’t think she believed I would live up to her high expectations, but she was willing to give me a chance. Even though I had failed utterly, she gave me that one additional chance. <br />
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And that was all I needed. I went back to school. I took adult education classes after school to make up for the classes I had failed the year before. I did my work diligently, but I poured my passion into writing for the newspaper.<br />
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Ms. Rossi demanded good work, and I produced it. Her praise was hard to come by, but I earned it, one story at a time. And she was different in newspaper class—more relaxed, funnier, at ease among that cohort of students who chose to be there, who wrote because they loved to write. <br />
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I composed my articles at home on an electric typewriter, banging out draft after draft, until they were as perfect as I could make them—for Ms. Rossi. I still have them all, yellowed newspaper clippings inserted into protective sleeves in a thick binder. I wrote stories about foreign exchange students, profiles of teachers, opinion pieces, and long articles about my experiences in the Soviet Union.<br />
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I wrote my best work in high school for Ms. Rossi. <br />
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I never came to love high school. I never even liked it. But newspaper was the one thing that kept me going. It made everything else worthwhile. It was the one thing I was good at.<br />
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And Ms. Rossi was the one teacher who consistently inspired me to do my best. <br />
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Sometimes, one is enough.<br />
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Towards the end of my high school career, Ms. Rossi wrote a letter of recommendation on my behalf for a scholarship that I was applying for. I didn’t get the scholarship, but I got something even better: a copy of the letter that she wrote. It was the first letter a teacher had ever written for me and given to me.<br />
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I still have it, the paper beginning to yellow.<br />
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<i>If this letter is supposed to impress, it should be written by someone with a gift for writing: Lisa Renfro. In my twenty-five years of secondary teaching, I have encountered few students as talented as Lisa.</i><br />
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<i>I first met Lisa four years ago when she was a freshman in my Honors World History class. School was not a priority for her at that time and I feared she was just another bright student with no goals. When she applied to the North Star, our school newspaper, I was surprised. I indicated that perfect attendance and “time on task” would be important and I would not hesitate to drop her from the staff if she couldn’t (or wouldn’t) produce. Lisa assured me that she wanted to join the staff and she wanted to write.</i><br />
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<i>And write she did! From the beginning, Lisa’s articles were virtually error-free, but there was more than technical perfection. Lisa could take an ordinary topic and create a story; from an ordinary story she created poetry. Lisa’s articles were always marked by warmth, heart, and humor. </i><br />
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She goes on to describe my contributions for each of the three years that I was involved with the newspaper. Towards the end of the letter, she writes:<br />
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<i>Though I can’t take any of the credit, I will certainly share the pride. Writing is truly her gift; don’t be surprised to hear of her in years to come.</i><br />
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She deserves more credit than she probably ever imagined.<br />
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When Ms. Rossi was my teacher, she was in the middle of her teaching career. She had already been teaching for twenty years, I was her student for four, and then she taught for another twenty-three. Forty-seven years in all. I have no doubt that many other students will take up her request to write stories of her influence on their lives. Many of these students are high achievers, honors and International Baccalaureate students who excelled all four years of high school. <br />
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It is a testament to Ms. Rossi that she was able to shepherd those who knew their way as well as those who nearly lost it. When I now find myself looking at one of my own students who seems to be lost, I often think of Ms. Rossi. I remind myself that one teacher can make a difference.<br />
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In the afternoon, the kids come home from school with news about their flowers. <br />
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Mrs. O said the amaryllis seeds were perfect because their class is about to start a unit on soil and plants. Mrs. A appreciated her “bouquet for those with patience” and said it was very clever.<br />
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My daughter, who will be leaving elementary school forever in a month, likes the idea that some part of her will stay behind with Mrs. A.<br />
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In their notes about how to sprout the amaryllis seeds, the kids explained to their teachers that the tiny bulbs will take years to mature. Both of my kids will be done with elementary school before the flowers ever bloom. My daughter’s note concludes: <br />
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<i>In four or five years (when I am in high school!) the bulbs will be big enough to bloom, and your bouquet will finally be complete!</i><br />
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At home, she cups the seeds in her hands, feeling for the tiny bumps within the papery husks. There is much work to be done quietly in the dark, underground. She imagines the bulb’s burgeoning, the plant’s narrow leaves slicing upward, and finally, years from now, the slow unfurling of its magnificent petals on Mrs. A’s desk, opening for a new group of fifth graders. <br />
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It only seems fitting that the flower will be so long in coming. <br />
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Looking at Ms. Rossi’s Facebook photos, I see that her hair is all gray now, and she no longer wears it permed in those severe, tightly wound curls. It’s wavy, relaxed, and there’s a softness to her face. She is less formidable. Or maybe the change is entirely in my perception, and not in her. Really, in many ways, she is little changed. I would recognize her in a heartbeat. <br />
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The rest of my answer to Ms. Rossi’s prompt will be brief: Once I got to college, once I left the prison of high school behind, I learned to love school. In fact, I stayed in school for over a decade, earning a bachelor’s degree, a master’s degree, and then a Ph.D. Actually, I’m still in school—but now as a teacher. <br />
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And I am also a writer. And still, when I write, I often write for Ms. Rossi, or what she represents for me: a reader with the highest standards who expects dedication and hard work, who believes—against all evidence to the contrary—that I can succeed, who brings out my best, who cares about the one thing that matters, the one thing that can make all the difference, the one thing that is enough.<br />
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So, this is my final assignment for Ms. Rossi, turned in nearly 27 years after I first walked into her classroom. <br />
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This is my flower for my teacher.<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-66226658707489300982015-05-26T13:28:00.002-04:002015-05-26T13:29:08.576-04:00Xylotheque Reviews<em>Xylotheque </em>has been out for a little over a year now. I've collected a number of reviews of the book with links below. <br />
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<li>Brenda Miller wrote a beautiful lyric essay/review at the <em>Los Angeles Review of Books </em>("<a href="http://lareviewofbooks.org/review/pregnant-pauses-yelizaveta-p-renfros-lyric-essays" target="_blank">Pregnant Pauses: Yelizaveta P. Renfro’s Lyric Essays</a>").</li>
<li>Lenore Myka contributed <a href="http://coloradoreview.colostate.edu/reviews/xylotheque-essays/" target="_blank">a review</a> to Colorado State University's Center for Literary Publishing (home of the <em>Colorado Review</em>).</li>
<li>Gwendolyn Edward wrote <a href="http://www.americanmicroreviews.com/xylotheque-by-yelizaveta-renfro/" target="_blank">a review</a> for <em>American Microreviews & Interviews.</em></li>
<li>BK Loren reviewed the book for <em>Orion </em>(link to <a href="http://www.orionmagazine-digital.com/orionmagazine/november_december_2014?pg=69#pg69" target="_blank">pdf</a> here).</li>
<li>Susan Wittig Albert wrote <a href="http://www.storycirclebookreviews.org/reviews/xylotheque.shtml" target="_blank">a review</a> for Story Circle Book Reviews.</li>
<li>Maggie Trapp recently reviewed the book for <em>Terrain.org </em>("<a href="http://www.terrain.org/2015/reviews-reads/review-taproot-writing-a-life-of-trees/" target="_blank">Taproot~Writing a Life of Trees</a>").</li>
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And here's a recent <a href="http://www.storycirclebookreviews.org/interviews/renfro.shtml" target="_blank">interview</a> about the book at Story Circle.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-27528447310089983372015-03-31T08:53:00.002-04:002015-03-31T08:55:28.716-04:00Sarton Memoir AwardI'm thrilled to share this news: <em>Xylotheque </em>was recently awarded the Sarton Memoir Award from <a href="http://www.storycircle.org/SartonLiteraryAward/pressrelease.shtml" target="_blank">Story Circle Network</a>! Here's a photo of the nifty award that arrived in the mail last week. <br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-59813171439051640692015-01-16T08:36:00.001-05:002015-01-16T08:37:21.092-05:00Writing the First ChapterThe assignment: to write the first chapter of <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Great Connecticut Caper</i>, a serialized storybook that would be created by twelve different writers and twelve different illustrators living in Connecticut.<br />
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The target audience: children in grades four through seven.<br />
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The premise: Gillette Castle is going missing!<br />
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The challenge: to create an engaging, fast-paced opening chapter that would introduce sympathetic characters and lay out some basic plot elements. And to do it in under 650 words.<br />
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The process: The first step was research. We made a family trip to Gillette Castle in East Haddam where we learned about William Gillette, the eccentric actor who brought Sherlock Holmes to life on the stage and who designed his twenty-four room mansion to resemble the ruin of a medieval castle. We toured the home, looking at hidden passageways and the surveillance system based on strategically placed mirrors, and we wandered the grounds, admiring his personal railroad track as well as his woods and views of the Connecticut River.<br />
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But we weren’t done yet. On another weekend, we took a ride on the Essex Steam Train and the Becky Thatcher Riverboat, learning about the Connecticut River, getting a different vantage point of Gillette Castle from the water, and discovering more about William Gillette.<br />
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As a writer, I often start projects with research. And as a parent, I often take my kids along. But this assignment was different. I am primarily a writer of books for adults, and this project was writing for children. Luckily, I had my own kids to consult.<br />
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So after the research stage, I had a long brainstorming session with my fourth grader (with the first grader listening in and offering occasional advice). We discussed what makes a good story and interesting characters. We talked about mystery books for children. We tossed around ideas for the story and possible character names. The fourth grader taught me how to make a character map, and she created several for possible characters. The first grader made one as well.<br />
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We agreed early on that the protagonists should be children, and that there should be two of them—a boy and a girl. (We discussed Ron Roy’s and Mary Pope Osborne’s books as examples.) The names and character traits of the boy and girl kept changing, but we finally settled on Thomas and Li-Ming. And during a long walk through our neighborhood, the fourth grader and I discussed different possible openings. Should the protagonists be touring the castle? Should they be on a riverboat cruise? What other characters should be introduced? What should happen at the end of the chapter?<br />
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There would be a cliffhanger, we decided, so readers would want to tune in for the following installment. And we needed to create openings for other writers to build the story—characters who could be further developed, situations that could be interpreted in more than one way.<br />
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Finally, once we had hashed out everything, I wrote the chapter. The first draft came in at over 900 words. So then I cut, and I cut some more. And finally, when the chapter was just under 650 words, I read it to my kids. They loved it. But they also had a few suggestions. I revised. I read it again.<br />
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It was a process of learning together. I shared what I knew about storytelling with my kids, and they shared what they knew with me.<br />
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The outcome: See for yourself <a href="http://ctcaper.cthumanities.org/chapter-1-all-aboard-the-becky-thatcher/" target="_blank">here</a> where the first chapter was posted on January 4. And please check back every two weeks as more chapters go live. I am looking forward to seeing where the story goes from here. And so are my kids.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-66184628543786993062014-12-30T17:43:00.000-05:002015-01-16T08:37:21.097-05:00Photo/Text 10: ShadowsWhen the low-hanging winter sun paints us gold and persimmon hues with its lukewarm laving, I look not so much at things as at their stretched taffy shadows. Reading them like tea leaves, it is not the future nor the past that I seek, because I am imbued always in these other times, in these not-nows; they are like cataracts upon my eyes, the future and the past, clouding my vision. So what I read in the shadows is something much more fleeting and inscrutable, something that eludes my gaze: the slippery present, not distorted but rather enhanced as shadow, the clarity jarring and pure, showing me the outlines of the desert, of where I am and who I am today, right now, this moment. Distilled into shadow, I stand and look upon myself at the setting of another year. <o:p></o:p><br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-45715175688697969962014-11-21T09:44:00.000-05:002014-11-21T09:45:57.379-05:00Xylotheque: "Soviet Trees"<em>My book,</em> Xylotheque, <em>is made up of nine essays accompanied by ten photographs. Every couple of weeks, I am posting an excerpt from one of the essays along with a photograph that was not included in the book. The photo accompanying this post was taken in Riverside when I was twelve, shortly before the events described in the essay. “Soviet Trees” first appeared in </em>Parcel <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">in 2011.</i><br />
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Excerpt from "Soviet Trees"</h3>
The girls crowd around you, studying your face, your hair, especially your clothes. They scrutinize the words <em>Highland</em> and <em>Riverside</em> printed in goldenrod letters on your royal-blue sweat shirt. What do they mean? Are they a brand name? The girls demand answers. They ask you to repeat the words again and again. You’ve been taken captive by these anthropologists in the guise of Soviet teenage girls. Like all anthropologists, they see you projected through themselves. They don’t understand why you would grow weary of saying the words—<em>Highland, Riverside, Highland, Riverside</em>—like some tired incantation. As far as you’re concerned, whatever significance the words carry has been eked out on the third or fourth repetition, and you want to tell them that the words are now nonsense on your tongue, that you yourself have forgotten what they mean. <em>Highland. Riverside.</em> For the girl-anthropologists the words are redolent of freshly manufactured goods, and of freedom and dollars. They stare at your sweat shirt as though it provides a window into America, all of it, in its unimaginable wealth.<o:p></o:p><br />
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There a few things you need to know. It’s the summer of 1987, and you’re in Kuybyshev, a city closed to foreigners. The girls are Young Pioneers, and this is still the Soviet Union—but actually, there’s no <em>still</em> about it. Remember that. It simply <em>is</em>, for you and the girls, for as long as you’ve been alive, and for as long as your parents have been alive. To say it is <em>still</em> the Soviet Union is like boarding the Titanic for her maiden voyage, looking out at her massive decks, and thinking, <em>Someday, I’ll remember this as the time when the Titanic was still afloat</em>. How could you believe, standing on the deck, that either of those colossal ships, the Titanic or the Soviet Union, would ever go down?<o:p></o:p><br />
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You’re only twelve—remember that, too—but you’ve been put in the oldest group, with girls who are mostly fourteen, because you’re tall and precocious. They keep asking about what kinds of things you own, how much stuff costs in America, what the stores are like, and how much money your family has. They want a full inventory of America, from top to bottom, from side to side, as though America is just a vast storage unit full of material goods. You don’t know where to begin, but you feel like a celebrity. For the first time in your life, you’re popular, the star attraction. You suddenly have so many friends you can’t remember their names. They crowd closer and closer, trying to lay their claims on you, trying to see what an American looks like. They comment on your American face, which leaves you stunned. Americans have always commented on your Russian face. It’s turning out you look like no one at all. It’s turning out that your amalgamation of Russian and American features has made you only uniquely yourself, unlike anyone else, which is the last thing you want. You’re twelve, remember. You want to shout—<em>but I’m Russian like you!</em>—though quite clearly, you’re not. Quite clearly, you don’t belong here. The hot heavy press of the girls in the cramped humid room renders you an exotic cornered animal whose fate lies in the hands of your captors. And quite clearly, they haven’t finished sizing you up yet. They haven’t yet decided what to make of you.<o:p></o:p></div>
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They demand to know, among other things, how you got here. To get into the camp you have to have a pass, and in order to get a pass, you have to have connections. You explain that your mother was able to get you a pass through her former college roommate, who is connected to the trade union. The girls seem dubious. This is a camp for future Soviets. It certainly is not a camp for American girls, even American girls who don’t believe they’re American, who think they’re Russian, which is the kind of American girl you are.<o:p></o:p></div>
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In your slightly awkward Russian, you tell your unlikely story: that your mother is Russian and your father American, that they met in graduate school in Leningrad, that you were born in Kuybyshev and lived there with your Russian grandparents and mother and aunt until you were three. And then you left with your mother to be with your American father in a fantastical place called Riverside, California. Yes, you’ve seen the Pacific Ocean. Yes, you have a river of sorts, but it’s puny—often just a dry riverbed—compared to the Volga,. Yes, that’s the unlikely kind of rivers you have in America. And you have unlikely trees—palm and navel orange and avocado and eucalyptus—and unlikely stores, too, where, yes, it’s true, you can buy just about anything you want, as long as you have money. Yes, Highland is the name of your school, but you don’t know why. You know the names for many things in America but don’t know why those are their names.</div>
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<em>To read more of this essay, look for my book</em> Xylotheque, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">available from the <a href="http://unmpress.com/books.php?ID=20000000005602&Page=book" target="_blank">University of New Mexico Press</a> and other online retailers.<o:p></o:p></i>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-57458083314091712302014-10-11T16:58:00.000-04:002014-10-11T16:59:38.649-04:00Life and Work after the MFARecently I was asked, along with two other alumni, to return to my MFA alma mater to teach a graduate class and give a reading as part of the visiting writers series. After the reading, we alumni were asked to discuss life and work after the MFA. So on my seven-hour train ride from Hartford to Washington, DC, I began to think about what I would tell students currently in the midst of an MFA program about what might await them.<br />
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I was fortunate to be able to come down a couple of days early, which allowed me to catch up with my MFA friends who still live in the area. Ten years out from the MFA, we talked about where we were, what we had done, what we were working on, and what roles writing and reading still play in our lives. <br />
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My friend Ananya and I both had children (who are now fourth graders) right after finishing our MFAs. While her full-time day job, an editing position, does not allow for a great deal of creativity, she’s published nonfiction at the <a href="http://www.washingtonian.com/articles/work-education/finding-happiness-in-the-simple-things-in-life/#comments" target="_blank">Washingtonian</a>, <a href="http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/dec/01/youth-soccer-lessons-kids-and-parents" target="_blank">The Guardian</a>, and <a href="http://www.baltimoresun.com/news/opinion/oped/bs-ed-rodger-single-20140603,0,5190048.story" target="_blank">The Baltimore Sun</a>, and she is also an assignment editor at the <a href="http://www.washingtonindependentreviewofbooks.com/" target="_blank">Washington Independent Review of Books</a>. <br />
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My friend Christa accepted a full-time editor/writer position with a federal agency right after finishing her MFA and has now worked in this career for a decade. With two preschool-age children, she currently doesn’t have a lot of time for creative projects, but she does carve out writing time when she can—writing on her phone, for example, just to capture observations, dialogue, whatever comes to her. Since completing her MFA, her nonfiction has appeared in the <em>Oxford American</em> (available online <a href="http://www.tricities.com/archives/article_e4209fcf-53cf-5deb-ad39-3e24796137cf.html" target="_blank">here</a>) and on <a href="http://www.pbs.org/speak/seatosea/powerprose/" target="_blank">PBS.org</a>.<br />
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My friend Amanda had her debut novel, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Know-Where-Am-When-Falling/dp/1783333286" target="_blank">I Know Where I Am When I'm Falling</a>, published earlier this year. The mother of adult children, she is currently at work on more fiction, teaches part time at a community college, runs book discussion groups, and is also a sculptor.<br />
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Unfortunately, the four of us were not able to get together all at the same time, but I did get to spend an evening with Ananya and Christa, and the following afternoon with Ananya and Amanda. (Amanda blogged about our conversation <a href="http://irrelevanceofhope.blogspot.com/2014/10/almost-fiction-almost-true-conversation.html" target="_blank">here</a>.) <br />
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And as I was talking with these friends, I kept thinking about what advice I would give to current MFA students about what awaits them after the degree. Here’s what I’ve come up with.<br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">You might look back on your time in the MFA and wonder what you’ve squandered those two or three years on. </i>Right now—these years you are in a graduate program supported by people who care passionately about writing—is your time to write. Seize it. Make the most if it. You might feel overwhelmed with seminar papers, part-time jobs, teaching duties, but remember that right now your life is largely devoted to creative writing. And that may never be true again. Your life is likely to become even more overwhelming and complicated after the MFA. You may never have the kind of time you have now. And take advantage of all the resources available to you in your program (and in other departments as well). Take classes with a wide range of faculty in multiple genres. It took me years to figure out I was also a nonfiction writer because I stuck so stubbornly to classes within my chosen genre—fiction. And to this day I regret not taking a single poetry class during my MFA program. Seize these opportunities.<br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">You aren’t likely to make your living as a writer of literary fiction, creative nonfiction, or poetry</i>. You may make some money at it, but it probably won’t pay the bills. And unless you’re independently wealthy or have a spouse with a well-paying job who is able to support you financially, you’ll need to take on other work that does pay the bills. Consider this before finishing your MFA. Think about ways you can make yourself marketable in a career. Think about the types of work—editing, teaching, technical writing, curriculum development, grant writing—that you might take on and how you can begin to prepare for that future now. This might mean working as an editor for a scholarly or literary journal affiliated with your institution, being an RA for a professor, being a TA to get teaching experience, taking a class in grant writing or business writing, finding an internship in the field you’re interested in, working at a part time job that might become full time, volunteering, finding a mentor, taking classes with faculty outside of your department, etc. This doesn’t need to take up a huge amount of your time; even making preliminary steps can help poise you for employment after the MFA.<br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Keep writing after the MFA. </i>It will be hard. Suddenly, your vast support network—your professors, your fellow students—will be all but gone. No one will be demanding work on a regular basis. No one will be encouraging you in weekly workshops. Writing may quickly slip down to the bottom of your to-do list. Writing will go from being the center of your working life to a labor of love. Writing will take time away from your family life, from paid work. And you might find—as I did and as I still do—that days, weeks, months can slip by without any creative work getting done. Christa said, “In the MFA program and right after, I had these ideals of what writing time looked like—long stretches of time that I could set aside for unfettered and uninterrupted writing.” For most, this is the ideal, not the reality. You will need to find ways to get the work done, if you want to continue to write. This perseverance takes on different forms—writing before dawn, writing after bedtime, writing on weekends, writing at your paid job, writing in little notebooks while your toddlers play. Find the ways that work for you, and stick to them. <br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Select your writing projects wisely. </i>If you’re like me, you might have half a dozen books that you’d like to be working on all at the same time. There are always more projects than time to do them in. Pick the ones that you pursue carefully. If publication is important to you, then ask yourself: how likely is it that I will be able to publish this particular piece? Christa pointed out to me that while all four of us received our MFAs in fiction, three of us—Christa, Ananya, and myself—have published more nonfiction than fiction. Do I love nonfiction more than fiction? Not necessarily. But publishing it is easier. In Christa’s words: “The time crunch of post-MFA life has made me so pragmatic in a way I wasn't in graduate school.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I love all of my creative writing projects—short fiction, novel, nonfiction—but with so little writing time, I feel this pressure to ‘choose wisely’ in what I do write—what’s most likely to get published? It's become important for me to balance that pragmatism with making sure I love what I'm writing.”<br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">What you now think success will look like is probably not what it will look like. </i>When I was asked, during a casual conversation on my trip, whether or not I consider myself a “success,” I didn’t immediately have an answer. For one thing, I guess I don’t think of my life in terms of “success” or “failure”—I just keep working. But also, ten years ago when I was finishing my MFA, I never would have thought that I would end up here. True, I have published two books and have had work in numerous journals, but at the same time I don’t make my living as a writer. There are a lot of other things I’ve done—teaching, editing, curriculum development—that bring in more money and actually pay the bills. When I asked Amanda the question about success, she said something along these lines: “I get to spend most of my time, paid and unpaid, reading and writing, and thinking about reading and writing, and talking about reading and writing.” Yes, I thought. Me too. Even when I’m teaching or editing, I’m still engaged with reading and writing. When I think about it in that context, my days are full of the work that I was preparing to do in my MFA program. Success. My MFA writing friends and I have not (yet) penned bestsellers, but there is success of the daily, quiet kind, which is more lasting. Like spending our days reading and writing. Like being asked to return to my alma mater to teach the students whose shoes I was once in. Success.<br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Keep your writing friends. </i>Stay in touch with people in your MFA program. Find good, sympathetic readers for your work—people who get what you’re trying to do and are generous with praise and criticism—and be proactive about continuing to exchange work with them after the MFA. If you get a full-time day job, you might find yourself surrounded by people who are not sympathetic to your creative goals. Suddenly, you’ll find yourself adrift, your writing friends scattered, distant. Find ways to stay in touch with them. Keep seeking out people who love the things you love, and connect with them, virtually or in person—however you can. Amanda and I have read one another’s book drafts. I hope to read a draft of Ananya’s novel soon. We are, as Amanda once said to me, members of the same tribe. Ten years after my MFA, this is one of the things that endures—the connections I made with fellow students. Even though the members of your tribe may scatter far and wide, keep those relationships. They will help to sustain your writing life long after you receive your diploma.<br />
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I can tell you what I know, based on my own experience. My children, ages nine and six, have lived since birth in a house without a television.<br />
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“So what do your children <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">do</i>?” people ask. Many other parents can’t imagine how we fill the vast chasms of time that seem to stretch endlessly from waking (sometime around 6 a.m.) to school (the bus comes after 8 a.m.). What do the children <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">do</i> on weekend mornings without cartoons to keep them occupied? What do they <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">do</i> in the evenings in that extra time between dinner and bed?<br />
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The short answer: they do a lot. <br />
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Here are some of the things I’ve found them doing in the morning: reading, writing, drawing, playing with Legos, playing with stuffed animals, watching the fish swim in the tank, solving math problems, cooking, building marble runs, putting together snap circuits, playing with paper dolls, dancing, devising a comedy routine, listening to an audiobook, taking photographs, telling jokes, cutting and gluing paper, making a doll house out of recyclables, making cookies with Play-Doh, nailing together pieces of wood, stringing beads, pressing leaves, and . . . talking. <br />
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And not ever having had access to a television, they don’t miss it. Seemingly not one bit. <br />
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That’s not to say we’re completely against technology, or that we’re purists when it comes to TV. Of course the kids have seen TV—when they visit their grandparents or when we stay in a hotel, for example. And they are occasionally allowed to watch videos on a small portable DVD player. But for the most part, our lives are TV-free. And though we have computers in the house, the kids rarely use them—usually only when required to for school. And they don’t have access to other devices with screens either (no smartphones, iPads, or video games).<br />
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But before I wax poetic about how idyllic our lives are without television, I should add one disclaimer: My husband and I had decided we were better off without TV years before we had our first child. So not having a television was not so much a conscious parenting decision as it was an extension of what we were already doing. And what seemed natural to us became natural to the kids. Only in the last few years have some of the effects of our TV-free life become apparent to us. <br />
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If all of this sounds like bragging, I apologize. My family is not perfect, and I could easily make a list of our faults. On the other hand, since I believe that not having a television has had a remarkably positive influence on our lives, here I’m going to focus on the good qualities in my children that I believe can be attributed, in part, to their lack of TV exposure.<br />
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So what are the benefits of raising TV-free kids? I’ve come up with a list of seven broad areas.<br />
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1. Behavior</h3>
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My kids are well behaved. All their lives, I have been getting compliments about their behavior—from teachers, from flight attendants, from strangers in restaurants, from other parents. They’ve never had public meltdowns of any sort (and very few private tantrums either). They’re “easy” kids—they entertain themselves, they become engrossed in tasks for long stretches of time, and they are generally happy and good natured. Yes, they complain from time to time, they get whiney or obstinate, but for the most part, they’re fantastic kids. They listen to us. Almost always. <br />
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How is this related to television? Kids mimic what they see. As Hart notes, “my kids were watching obnoxious TV shows and were acting obnoxious accordingly.” Studies have linked high rates of television viewing with antisocial, aggressive, and even criminal behavior. And even if the content is geared toward young audiences and seems harmless, ask yourself if you want your child’s behavior and values influenced by the shows they’re watching. Personally, I don’t want a little Hannah Montana on my hands.<br />
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2. Concentration</h3>
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My kids have long attention spans. When my son started preschool, his teachers marveled at his ability to sit still and focus on a task. He would still be sitting at the table, drawing or working on an assigned activity an hour later when all of his classmates had become distracted and wandered away. My daughter can read a book for hours at a time—for even longer than <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">I</i> can sit still reading! She’s read 300-page books from cover to cover without hardly moving. In short, my kids can concentrate on a single task for a long time. They don’t get distracted.<br />
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Researchers have been telling us for years that television (along with video games, texting, and other technologies) erode children’s attention spans. Watching a television show does not require much mental effort or complex thought; it is largely a passive activity. And the constantly shifting images are not conducive to concentration; in fact, some researchers have suggested that exposure to television and video games may contribute to ADD/ADHD. So why offer my kids a frenetic, fast-paced cartoon—possibly with frequent commercial breaks, making the experience even more disjointed—when I can offer them a book?<br />
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3. Academics</h3>
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Probably not a day has gone by in my daughter’s life that has not had a book in it. She’s been read to or has read on her own every day for nine and a half years since the day she came home from the hospital. She has been exposed to thousands of books. Think of all the hours that the average fourth grader spends looking at screens (television, computer, etc.). Now imagine what would happen if that fourth grader had instead spent all those hours reading books. That’s the reality my daughter has lived.<br />
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And it shows. She excels academically. Her vocabulary is extensive—better than that of many adults. One of her teachers calls her a “walking dictionary.” She performs well above grade level in virtually every subject. She has been deemed “gifted” in math as well and receives individualized enrichment, allowing her to advance several years beyond her grade level. I could go on and on, but you might ask—how can you attribute all of this to the lack of a television?<br />
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Of course I can’t. It would be folly to say this is all due to our TV-free lives. In the endless permutations of the nature versus nurture debate, it’s impossible to isolate any single factor. If my daughter had spent hours in front of a television screen every day of her life, she would probably still be smart. On the other hand, she would unlikely have her stunning knowledge of Greek mythology or her extensive arsenal of Shakespearean insults.<br />
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4. Materialism</h3>
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My kids are not materialistic. Or at least they’re a lot less materialistic than their peers. When we go shopping, they don’t ask for things. Admittedly, I go shopping as infrequently as possible, but they do end up at the grocery store with me every couple of weeks. During our last trip my son asked if we were getting raspberries. I told him no, the price was too high—and that was the end of it. Last Christmas, my daughter asked Santa for a <a href="http://chasingsamaras.blogspot.com/2013/12/christmas-list.html" target="_blank">ball of yarn</a>. Yes, just one. That was the extent of her Christmas list. She hates shopping even more than I do and has no interest in clothes, especially the clothes that some other girls her age seem to obsess over. My son has a weakness for Legos, art supplies, and all things Egyptian. He is a little more materialistic than his sister, but his wants are minor compared to some kids, and the requests are few and far between.<br />
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How is TV involved? TV makes you want things—especially the programming that is interrupted every few minutes with advertising. The average American child sees somewhere around 20,000 commercials per year. This is an astounding number! The cumulative effect of being told 20,000 times that you should buy something—toys, articles of clothing, food products, video games, digital devices—has to be monumental, especially for an audience of children who have not yet learned to distinguish information from persuasion. Viewing all of these ads not only makes children believe that their lives will not be happy or complete without certain products, but it also affects their behavior, causing them to nag their parents to purchase the products. Researchers have dubbed this the “Nag Factor,” defined as “the tendency of children, who are bombarded with marketers’ messages, to unrelentingly request advertised items,” and advertisers design commercials to specifically <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">encourage this behavior</i> in children.<br />
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That’s why my kids don’t ask for much—they aren’t being told, 55 times a day, 385 times a week, 1,667 times a month, that they want stuff.<br />
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5. Gender Stereotypes</h3>
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If you want a girl to believe that she should play with dolls and fluffy stuffed animals, that her favorite color should be pink, that she’s likely not that great at math or science, that she should like clothes and cosmetics, that she should behave like a drama queen, then turn on the television. If you want a boy to believe that he should play with trucks and machines, that he should be macho and tough, that he should hide his emotions, that he should like violent video games, that he’s better than girls, then turn on the television.<br />
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Otherwise, just leave it off. <br />
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While some children’s shows have made great leaps in portraying gender equality, many are still lagging sadly behind, and what’s worse—much of the advertising, especially for toys, targets boys or girls exclusively, maintaining the divide between the genders and creating fixed notions in children’s minds about what it means to be male and female.<br />
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My son has taken ballet lessons and art lessons. My daughter loves science and chess. We want our kids to explore their interests wherever they may lie, to reach their potential, to be fully human—and that means not being pushed into narrow spheres by the outdated, rigid gender roles that sadly, are still perpetuated in so much of the media.<br />
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6. Nonconformity</h3>
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My daughter is an individual, someone who is comfortable in her own skin. She plays the tuba because it is “awesome”—never mind that she’s the only one in fourth grade who picked that particular instrument. The height of fashion, for her, is a navy blue T-shirt that has a somewhat obscure math pun on the front, a faded pair of tan shorts, mismatched brightly colored knee socks, and worn-out sneakers. She loves mythology and Shakespeare, puns and logic puzzles. She’s proud of the fact that she’s the only one in her class who doesn’t have a TV. It makes her even more different. And being different, she will tell you, is awesome.<br />
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And it’s not having a TV all of these years that has enabled her to be different—without exposure to television, she’s never felt a need to conform to the stereotypes perpetuated by popular programs and advertising.<br />
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My kids have never said, “I <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">have</i> to do XYZ because Jane is doing it.” Or, “I need to have XYZ because <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">all </i>the kids have them.” Or, “But Tom’s parents let <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">him</i> do XYZ.” Or, “But <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">all</i> the kids are watching XYZ, so I <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">have</i> to.” Or anything along those lines. <br />
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7. Finding Their Passion</h3>
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If your kids don’t watch TV, they spend a lot of time doing other things. A lot of other things. And as they do those other things, they just might find something that they love.<br />
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My son is an artist. He’s only six, so it’s hard to tell if he’s going to stay with it, but for now, art is his passion. He draws, he paints, and he sculpts. His art teachers have commented that he has talent. And he can sit still working on a piece of art for an astonishing amount of time. He finishes his pieces with painstaking attention to detail and care.<br />
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Maybe if he watched TV he’d still be an artist. But we might not know it yet. And he wouldn’t have had all of those many hours to sit in silence with a pencil and a piece of paper. Just the pencil, the paper, and him. <br />
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Watching television would have made him more like other kids. Not watching television has allowed him to be himself. <br />
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But it’s hard to give up television, you might argue. It’s deprivation, torture, a punishment too severe for the adults in the household. Remember, you don’t have to go cold turkey, chucking your flat screen out on the curb. Give up TV in the mornings, as Hart did. Or evenings. Or limit it to weekends only. Or to one carefully selected film per week. Make sure the TV isn’t on as background noise. Be selective and thoughtful about when you turn it on. And pick programming that is ad-free and that emulates the behavior and values that are in keeping with your own. Your kids will benefit. Really, they will. Even with just a small change.<br />
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We are not really radicals. Since we had already been TV-free for five years when our daughter was born, we never felt deprived. I can understand, though, that many parents might feel inconvenienced giving up TV. But having children is not a matter of convenience. It’s also not convenient to be up all night with a fussy baby or to change diapers or to read a dozen storybooks before the sun even comes up. In fact, I’ve discovered that most of the things worth doing in life are not especially convenient or easy. It’s a matter of what we choose, where our priorities lie. If it’s more important that the children be quiet and occupied in front of a TV so that you can sleep in or stare at your own screen to check email or Facebook, then you have made a choice. Turning off the television is another choice. It’s not that hard. And it’s important. Because our choices have repercussions that extend far beyond the here and now.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-73979772487834209252014-08-29T13:20:00.000-04:002014-08-29T13:21:56.659-04:00Xylotheque: "Mulberry"<em>My book, </em>Xylotheque<em>, is made up of nine essays accompanied by ten photographs. Every couple of weeks, I am posting an excerpt from one of the essays along with a photograph that was not included in the book. "Mulberry" first appeared in </em>Adanna <em>in 2011</em><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US;">.</span><em> </em><br />
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Excerpt from "Mulberry"</h3>
Seeing for
the first time the purple glints of my newborn’s eyes, her skin downy and
puckered and tumescent, perfectly ripe for this world, I thought again of
mulberries, of being held in their branches, of purple stains, of the burst of
berry on tongue, and I saw giving birth was akin to climbing a tree: a reaching
toward light, nourishment, endurance, life, a cradling and an offering of the
most cherished to the world.<o:p></o:p><br />
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Maybe this is not true. Maybe I did not think of the mulberry
then. Maybe I seamed it into my memory later: mulberry, birth. Who can say what
thoughts occur during birth? It is stark physicality, a rending. It is an elbow
against sky. And yet, on some level, the mulberry was there, subsumed by my
laboring. Everything in my life was there with me, on that delivery table. Is
it a lie to create memories after the fact? Is it a fiction to plaster over
experience with words? Is it a violence to insist a tree means something other
than itself?<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-84008589989842898142014-07-01T11:54:00.002-04:002014-07-01T11:55:39.979-04:00Xylotheque: "Cause of Death"<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">My book, </i>Xylotheque<em>, is made up of nine essays accompanied by ten photographs. Every couple of weeks, I am posting an excerpt from one of the essays along with a photograph that was not included in the book. "Cause of Death" first appeared in </em>South Dakota Review <em>in fall 2009, and it </em><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US;"><em>was cited as a “notable” essay in </em>The Best American Essays 2010.</span><em> </em><br />
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Excerpt from “Cause of Death”</h3>
The man who came to see me to buy a site to bury his wife looked like a man who’d been inexplicably slapped by the earth itself. He looked like a man who’d been knocked down by a colossal sea wave while standing in the middle of a cornfield. He looked like a blind, burrowing animal that had been spit out by the dirt and left to blink and burn in the glare of full sunlight. Actually, he didn’t look all that different from many of the people I met while working at the cemetery, but I remember this man while I have forgotten many others. He was blindsided by grief, bewildered, as though he had been unexpectedly thrust on a stage beneath blinding lights and asked to play the role of a man who has just lost his wife. And he was still only figuring out how to be an actor, how to play this role, and it was vastly unfair that he didn’t get acting lessons or at least a dress rehearsal. He was just in his forties—and his wife had been, too—and this was completely unexpected, he told me. It was just completely unexpected, he told me again. He repeated this phrase a number of times during our morning together, as though offering an explanation or even an apology for why he had not come sooner, had not prepared for this, had not filled out the paper work last week before this had happened to him and he could think more clearly. Completely unexpected: this was why he blinked his eyes so rapidly and seemed unable to concentrate fully on what I was explaining about the internment paper work. Yet he tried to be kind and attentive, decorous, as though he didn’t want to be any trouble at all, as though he was there to please me. It was as though he was the one doing all the comforting and had come to make his wife’s death easier on me, and not the other way around.<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-60358640276236530412014-06-19T13:11:00.000-04:002014-07-01T11:44:56.491-04:00Treasure HuntIt’s the last day of school, and the treasure hunt is ready.<br />
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The first year, there were just a dozen clues. The second, we were up to twenty-five. Last year, thirty-four. And this year, they’ve requested fifty clues. Hard ones, they told me. They want clues that will send them looking in the dictionary or searching for abbreviations on the periodic table, clues that will test their knowledge of the Greek pantheon and Harry Potter lore, clues that contain algebraic equations and puns, scientific names for plants and animals and words in foreign languages. <br />
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I will hand them their first clue as they get off the bus, and for the next couple of hours, they will run all over our property—upstairs, downstairs, basement, front yard, backyard, garage, shed—as they solve the riddles I stayed up way too late writing for them. They will consult books. There will be words they may not know—<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">ornithology, velocipede, codex, antiquated, subterranean, textiles, cathode, pate, doppelganger, supine</i>—that will require a dictionary. There will be inside jokes. (And there will be some bathroom humor for the six-year-old.)<br />
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And there will be a few small prizes along the way, with a larger prize at the end, but that’s not the point. They don’t even remember what last year’s prize was—but they learned nearly every clue by heart. After the hunt is over, they will carefully redistribute all the clues to have the hunt again—and again. They will soon be chatting about velocipedes and doppelgangers. <br />
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They still have last year’s clues, and the ones from the year before. They still hide them for one another to find. And they make their own treasure hunts for one another, hiding scraps of paper all over the house with their own riddles. I find them occasionally, in the backs of drawers, between the pages of books, in coat pockets. They are always writing these little notes to lead one another on to the next good and surprising thing.<br />
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Their bus will come in an hour. I have the first clue in my pocket, ready to go. I can’t wait. <br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-91786720966998300962014-06-16T13:57:00.000-04:002014-06-16T13:57:11.115-04:00Xylotheque: "Quercus"<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">My book, </i>Xylotheque<em>, is made up of nine essays accompanied by ten photographs. Every couple of weeks, I am posting an excerpt from one of the essays along with a photograph that was not included in the book. "Quercus" first appeared in </em>Alaska Quarterly Review <em>in spring/summer 2011. A condensed version titled "The Wisdom of the Oak" was reprinted in </em>Reader's Digest <em>in the June/July 2011 issue. </em><br />
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Excerpt from “Quercus”</h3>
When I was just out of high school and thought I wanted to be a journalist, I spent close to four years working at several local daily newspapers in California. I wrote about hockey players and real estate agents, about preachers and bowlers, about criminals and mountain men. And often, as I gathered information for a story, I would feel the tug of those other lives that I glimpsed. For a day or an hour, I would mentally abandon my own life and imagine myself as someone else. I wanted to be a convert to another life.<br />
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For an afternoon, I dedicated my life to teaching pottery to senior citizens. I became a pyrotechnician and wowed thousands with my stunning fireworks displays. I joined the Seventh-day Adventist Church to become a follower of the charismatic black woman pastor I interviewed. I married the young, God-fearing trucker I met at a truck-stop chapel; he was from Pennsylvania and looking for, among other things, a wife. I became a classic-car buff and renovated a 1952 midnight-blue Chevy Fleetline. I trained to be a computer programmer and learned to design GIS programs for police to use in mapping crimes on a nationwide grid. When the Texan high school football players—whom I had come to interview to find out how much they ate—asked me what I was doing later, I became the kind of party girl who hung out late with athletes. I went to medical school to learn how to perform heart transplants on nine-year-old boys, like the one I wrote about, the one whose photo I took as he clutched a Winnie the Pooh doll in his hospital bed.<br />
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Daily I sought conversion: something powerful and sudden like a tornado to seize me up and shake me senseless, something to ravish me, to take me in its clutches forever and never set me back on earth. But working at daily newspapers, every day the view was different, the religion changed, the weather turned, the story was new. I never studied anything at length, I never knew anything in depth. I ran from one story to the next, my knowledge rudimentary. I was promiscuous in my yearnings, my many aborted passions. I took cuttings from all those lives, lined them up on a windowsill, where they shriveled, and all that remains now are yellowing clips in three-ring binders.<br />
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Now I am more than a dozen years removed from that life. Now what I want to learn most is how to stay put, how to be a student not of the sensational and transient but of the commonplace, the everyday, the enduring. Now instead of leaves of newspaper print, I collect a different kind of leaves, the real deal. Now I have become the student of a tree.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-65745536688270096882014-05-30T12:13:00.000-04:002014-05-30T12:15:20.891-04:00Xylotheque: "Song of the Redwood Tree"<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">My book, </i>Xylotheque<em>, is made up of nine essays accompanied by ten photographs. Every couple of weeks, I am posting an excerpt from one of the essays along with a photograph that was not included in the book. "Song of the Redwood Tree" first appeared in </em>South Dakota Review <em>in 2011. </em><br />
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Excerpt from “Song of the Redwood Tree”</h3>
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and look, but we do not see the trees. There is no place to stand to see an
entire redwood. For hours we crane our necks, peering into the sky where the
trees disappear from sight. We circle their behemoth trunks, stupefied. We are
underwater. The light on the forest floor is murky, greenish, yet freighted
with clarity. There is levity to our steps on the spongy duff. We are walking on
the ocean floor. “The forest canopy is the earth’s secret ocean,” writes
Richard Preston in <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Wild Trees</i>.
Hundreds of feet above us, the trees collect fog from the air. Their canopies
are like root systems reaching into the sky. They seem as distant as the stars
from where we stand in our green-tinged seafloor environment. The trees reach
into the earth and into heaven, drinking, drinking. We are blind to the work of
the roots under our feet, to the slow constant pull, to the enormous suck, the
seep of water upward, unceasing for centuries.</span><br />
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tell much about what’s happening in a forest from the ground,” says noted
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So true. From the ground, we do not see the life that teems within the canopies
hundreds of feet above us; we never glimpse, for example, the salamanders that
live their whole lives in trees without once touching the ground. We do not see
the epiphytes, fifty-plus species of mites, copepods, earthworms, bumblebees,
huckleberries, lichens, voles, rhododendrons, currant and elderberry bushes, or
the bonsai groves of California laurel, western hemlock, Douglas fir, tan oak,
Sitka spruce, and buckthorn that perch atop the sprawling canopies that are
like land masses held aloft in the sky. The canopies of the world’s forests, I
learn, contain half of nature’s species. The scientists who rappel themselves
into the trees, scaling redwood trunks like the faces of sheer cliffs, go into
this undiscovered country. And they see.<o:p></o:p><br />
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Science has other ways of seeing. Researchers peer at the
redwoods through microscopes, poring over cellulose, lichens, the structure of
shrimp found snarled in trees hundreds of feet above sea level. They fly over
the forests in twin-engine planes, using LIDAR, light detection and ranging, to
create highly detailed maps of the topography of redwood forests, determining
the heights of the tallest trees from the air. Dendrochronologists squint at
great slabs of redwood cross sections, peering at the rings, counting, seeking
out minute differences in annual growth. All of these are ways of seeing. And
all ways glimpse only pieces of the whole.<o:p></o:p><br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-2924317064324690202014-05-19T13:04:00.000-04:002014-05-19T13:04:58.387-04:00Keeping a Field NotebookIn “Why Keep a Field Notebook?” biologist Erick Greene describes an assignment that he required his students to complete over a semester:<br />
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I asked my students to pick one “thing” and observe it carefully over the entire semester. The “thing” they chose could be anything from a single plant, one place, a beaver dam, their garden, a bird feeder, and so on. They had to record their observations at least once a week in a field notebook.<o:p></o:p></div>
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What is the purpose of a field notebook? Greene lists several functions that it can serve:<br />
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These notebooks tend to capture the beauty and wonder of the natural world and help to hone the observational skills of the authors. They typically combine field sketching and painting with keen observation. . . . Another value of field notebooks is their ability to serve as an incredibly fertile incubator for your ideas and observations. By jotting down interesting observations, questions, and miscellaneous ideas, your field notebook can serve as a powerful catalyst for new experiments and projects.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I would argue that field notebooks can be just as valuable to writers as they are to scientists. I have kept a journal of one sort or another for most of my life, and for the past three years, I’ve worked in a large sketchbook that has become a field notebook of sorts, containing illustrations and observations of the natural world. I often take my notebook into my own backyard and make notations about the garden. I also regularly visit nearby ponds and favorite trees. <br />
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This spring, I asked students in my “writing about nature and ecology” class to keep a field notebook for the duration of the semester. They were to pick a single outdoor location and to visit that location once a week to observe it, recording their observations in writing and illustrations. For the first assigned reading of the semester, I handed out Greene’s essay to help get them thinking about their notebooks.<o:p></o:p><br />
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In the beginning of this project I had planned to take my classes on an excursion into “the field”—a nearby park—but in late January on the day I selected for this trip the temperature was barely in the teens, so I improvised. If I could not bring my students to nature, I would bring nature to my students. I collected a box full of nature artifacts—pinecones, seed pods, branches, leaves, needles—and spent time observing and drawing these objects in class. I wanted to get my students drawing—especially the ones who didn’t consider themselves artists—because drawing something forces you to truly observe it, to notice it in its detail, its spectacular complexity. It takes a long time to see and then to render all the veins in a leaf. Even though I am far from being an artist (with just one semester of high school art training), I have found that drawing something not only helps me to see it and to remember it, but it also helps me to write about it. I can describe in words what I’ve drawn much more accurately than what I’ve merely observed. <o:p></o:p></div>
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What kinds of things did I want to see in a field notebook? Many students had no idea where to begin. I told them they could list data like the date and time, the temperature and weather conditions, observations of plant or animal life, but they could also write down questions that came to mind, their thoughts and reactions, descriptions based on sensory data, metaphors and poem fragments—basically, anything they wanted. The point was to go to the same place once a week and write.<o:p></o:p><br />
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I pointed out to my students that Greene offers two principles for keeping a field notebook:<br />
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First, you will forget things far faster than you expect—most people think they will remember details of their observations and studies for longer and better than they actually do; and second, you will not know at the beginning of a study all the things that might be important or interesting—for this reason, it is a great idea to record more information than you think you might need.<o:p></o:p></div>
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In other words, I told my students, record everything—even if it seems obvious or irrelevant. I write all kinds of nonsense in my field notebook. And yet, as my collection of observations, data, and questions grows, I not only become more engaged with my subjects of study, but I also begin to see central themes emerging in my thinking. Are there certain things I draw again and again? Are there certain questions that seem to come up over and over? Do images from one week to the next echo one another? Do they contradict one another? What is the creative work that my subconscious mind is trying to do? The notebook is a place for me to put down this nascent writing, these fragments, without any expectation of creating a polished, finished piece of work.</div>
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Some students enjoyed the assignment, and others didn’t. Some wrote lengthy entries while others made telegraphic notes limited to temperature and time of day. Some made intricate illustrations while others drew little to nothing. Some included photos. One student, Vanessa, even did watercolor illustrations. With her permission, I am including an image of some of her work below.<o:p></o:p></div>
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For the last reading of the semester, I passed out “Landscape and Narrative” by Barry Lopez. I asked my students to think about their field notebooks in relation to Lopez’s idea of “interior” landscape and “exterior” landscape. Lopez writes:<br />
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I think of two landscapes—one outside the self, the other within. The external landscape is the one we see—not only the line and color of the land and its shading at different times of the day, but also its plants and animals in season, its weather, its geology, the record of its climate and evolution. . . . The second landscape I think of as an interior one, a kind of projection within a person of a part of the exterior landscape. . . . The interior landscape responds to the character and subtlety of an exterior landscape; the shape of the individual mind is affected by land as it is by genes.</div>
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Before turning in their field notebooks at the end of the semester, my students wrote a brief reflection on the contents on their notebooks. I asked them to think about the following questions: What kind of “landscape” dominated in their notebooks? Did they write more about the exterior world, or about themselves? Did they see any parallels between the exterior landscape that they observed and their interior landscape?<br />
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Students had a range of responses to these questions, just as they had a range of approaches to keeping field notebooks. Some students focused on the physical world, on observation, not venturing at all into the interior landscape, while others wrote freely about the feelings that were conjured by the natural world around them, even to the extent that the exterior landscape was sometimes obscured, barely present in their writings. Some shifted over the course of the project, beginning with notations about the external landscape but slowly adding more of their internal landscape as the weeks went on. In one notable case, a student started the semester making notations about plant and animal life, writing down the exact number of birds and squirrels that he saw on each excursion, but by the end of the semester he was writing intensely personal poetry about his connections to the natural world. He went from tallying ducks to looking at nature as a manifestation of divinity.<br />
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Over the course of the semester, I chose to observe a small clearing snuggled between the river in the back of Stanley Park and a trail that runs through the park. This spot is filled with large rocks and is very peaceful, as the rocks create natural seats to enjoy the calm movement of the river. Beginning in early February, the spot was covered in snow and the river was completely frozen. Almost three months later, the river was flowing and the bushes were beginning to bloom. It was beautiful being able to see the changes in the landscape as the weather got nicer. I’ve come to realize that I most enjoyed being able to see wildlife in and around the river. I never quite observed this about myself before the field journal, but there’s something I seriously love about seeing animals in their natural habitats, just living. It makes me realize that humans are simply animals, and although our way of living is much more complex, at the end of the day, we simply want to survive, just like the squirrels, geese, ducks, and one fish that I saw at the spot. This was my first experience keeping a field notebook, and to say I enjoyed it would be an understatement. I’ve always loved observing nature, but taking time to write about what I’m witnessing actually makes the moments timeless. I didn’t really write about myself a lot in the notebook itself, but I certainly think I grew as a person by having the opportunity to observe such a peaceful natural landscape.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Another student, Brendan, chose to observe the same tree every week. At the end of the semester, he wrote:<br />
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I am actually going to miss this tree. It seemed awkward at first, but as the semester went on, though it seemed like I was running out of things to say about the tree, I was growing in the way I felt about it. I can’t wait to come back next year in the fall and revisit the tree. I can see it with all of its leaves and the way they change colors.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I have never enjoyed writing but this experience has begun to change my opinion. I enjoy being out in nature but never wrote about my experiences in the moment. During the first semester I never slowed down and observed nature around me. This assignment forced me to keep in touch with nature and immerse myself in it. I really enjoyed this writing, being able to write whatever was on my mind and what I observed. There were no requirements that would restrict my thought and writing. I liked how it took me away from all my other work and left me alone with nature. With a lot of other assignments and work, having to relax and write about nature was not a burden. When I am home I spend a lot of time with nature and I believe from now on I will bring a field notebook along with me.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I liked keeping this field notebook. I realized, however, that people and scientists who do this regularly really have to be committed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was hard to make sure I got there once a week and sometimes it was longer or I had to go twice in one week. I also found it difficult observing one single spot because for many weeks not much changed. Watching winter turn to spring was interesting but it was very gradual and sometimes I found it hard to discuss what was new every week because I felt like I was repeating myself. I learned that nature is extremely subtle. When I was forced to really look for changes I realized they felt like they kind of happened without even being visible to the naked eye. Like, one day it was winter, and the next it was spring. But so much still somehow happens in between. I also learned that keeping this field notebook was a great way to have an excuse to sit and relax. It was peaceful and nice, even in the cold. I liked this notebook because it was very different than the other assignments in the class, but I think it got across the theme of the class more than any other assignment could. It made you stop and actually observe nature through your own eyes, not just read about it in someone else’s words.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Throughout the semester, I worked on the field notebook assignment along with my students, trekking each week to observe the same white oak in temperatures that ranged from the teens to the eighties. One week the wind chill was so extreme that I drove to the location and made my notations inside the car with the engine running. Some weeks, I wrote only about the external landscape, while others I delved into the internal as well. Every week, I drew. And now, some of my notes from those weeks are working themselves into a new essay I’m finishing. And others will sit dormant for a little longer. And some will never make it out of the notebook. That’s just the nature of a field notebook.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-1094034839921128142014-05-15T21:37:00.000-04:002014-05-30T12:15:41.531-04:00Xylotheque: "Lithodendron"<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">My book, </i>Xylotheque<em>, is made up of nine essays accompanied by ten photographs. Every couple of weeks, I am posting an excerpt from one of the essays along with a photograph that was not included in the book. "Lithodendron" first appeared in </em>Blue Mesa Review <em>in 2012. </em><br />
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We come on one of the coldest days of the year. A steady wind pierces our clothing, and the overcast sky, bruised a faint gray and yellow, threatens rain. We are kept company by a raven that sits on a lone post and periodically rasps out a cry. The few other people who have come today are quiet and reverent, moving silently with heads bent to the wind. Wearing fleece jackets, windbreakers, and hiking boots, they move alone or in pairs. Our party of three seems excessive. There are no children besides my daughter, who is not quite five.<br />
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We have come to a forest that is a desert, a desert that is a forest. Vegetation maps identify this part of Arizona as “barren land” because greenery covers less than 5 percent of the surface. Shrubs, sparse grasses, lone stunted junipers, yucca, and prickly-pear cactuses stud the landscape here and there, but I have to seek them out. They are subtle, never accosting the eye. Petrified Forest National Park is a land of barrenness: cracked mud, dust, clay, multihued strata. In places the landscape seems rusted, and this is not so far from the truth. Oxidation produces reds, pinks, oranges. In other places, the strata are blue, gray, black. This land of arroyos, washes, canyons, mesas, and plateaus has been sculpted by erosion, picked clean by time.<br />
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The eye does not at first recognize the trees in this forest. They litter the ground in great broken slabs like ancient columns that have fallen to ruin. They have been literally turned to stone: petrified. What is a stone tree? Is it mineral or vegetable? They rest in heaps upon the desert floor like great bones sucked dry by the centuries. For millennia they were pressed between the strata of the earth, like botanical specimens preserved in the pages of a book. They are long-embedded splinters that have been exuded by the earth’s skin, which here is parched and scaly like a reptile’s. Or they are the blanched ribs of time itself, lying broken in an ascetic landscape. They are landmarks in time. The landscape itself seems broken, in a state of final ruin, and yet all landscapes are broken. All are in continuous states of creation and destruction. On this December day the land is just a single iteration of itself. It was never more complete. It was never fixed. </div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-42004852884830050282014-05-03T09:33:00.000-04:002014-05-15T21:38:35.306-04:00Xylotheque: "Navel Country"<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">My book, </i>Xylotheque<em>, is made up of nine essays accompanied by ten photographs. Every couple of weeks, I am posting an excerpt from one of the essays along with a photograph that was not included in the book. "Navel Country," which appeared in </em>Colorado Review <em>in 2013, was the last essay in the collection that I wrote. It is a memoir about my grandfather, about growing up in the Inland Empire, about orange trees and memory, about landscape and nostalgia. </em><br />
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Summiting, I look down. My eyes find the straight line of Palmyrita, now flanked by warehouses and a tech park. I search the land for groves and finally spot the eight acres still being farmed by an elderly widow; the block of green is nearly lost in the sprawl of houses and the rectangular white roofs of warehouses, a new patchwork overlaying the land. I look a little farther, toward the base of Blue Mountain, where the family groves used to be. Here, there is nothing at all, just leveled dirt. The developers have razed the trees but put nothing in their place. The project was halted when the economy went sour, the developers running out of resources or vision, running out of some essential quality necessary to effect a transformation. What is here is emptiness, waiting to be overwritten, waiting for the next iteration of progress, the next conquest.<br />
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I try to think of a way to tell my daughter what this place looked like when I was a child: all those verdant nubs of trees tucked up against the hills, tidy as machine stitching, nature perfected. I want to redeem my grandfather and the land that made him. Before I can say anything, my daughter speaks. “California feels like home because we’ve moved so many times we always live somewhere different, but California always stays the same.” This is her second trip up Sugarloaf so she has a reference point, a sense of continuity. “I can see why you would feel that way,” I tell her. I don’t say the rest out loud:<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> You have the disease of nostalgia, too, I fear. You will someday think back to your childhood when you mistook your own innocence for an innocence of the world, when you mistook the simplicity of a child’s life for universal simplicity, your own happiness for universal happiness, when you mistook the long yawn of time that makes up childhood for permanence. Or worse, you’ll believe that you just missed out on something. And you did. And so did I. And so did we all. Even Grandpa.</i></div>
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Because when my grandfather arrived in California in 1922, even then people said the glory days were already past. I imagine the one perfect day—sometime in 1895 or perhaps 1905, when North and Tibbets were dead but my family was not yet on the scene—and it went by completely unnoticed. There was nothing remarkable about it, just a sun-drenched day with blossoms clustering tightly to the trees, their fragrance heavy in the air, and the Riversiders going about their business, driving their wagons up and down Victoria, men irrigating their groves, women buying eggs, and no one even suspecting that they had reached the pinnacle of their glory, that tomorrow and the day after and the day after the glory would slip a little further into the past, and even though more groves would be planted and more houses would be built, forever after there would be that sense of nostalgia, that sense that something beautiful and pure had slipped away. I see those Riversiders on their one perfect day, and they don’t know it’s perfect, and they have no one to tell them: <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">This is it. You’re living the dream. Don’t let it go by unnoticed. Put a border around it and paste it to an orange crate. Hold on to it, however you can.</i></div>
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And then I picture myself as a sixteen-year-old girl, painting standpipes on a summer day that feels like it stretches forever, and I want to say the same things to her. I want to put a border around her. And does some future version of myself capture me here, today, at the top of a peak flanked by my young children, looking down on a vanished landscape, and does that future self long to put a border around this moment, render it as landscape? How many layers deep can nostalgia accrue? What is this palimpsest of the self? There is no extracting the self from landscape. We are the landscape, for it is our creation.<br />
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I am at the cemetery, waiting for my nine o’clock appointment to arrive. The two women are thirty minutes late. The cemetery is peaceful in the chilly October morning. A squirrel digs with frantic speed in a pile of brown leaves; jays twitter politely in the evergreens; a fat groundhog snuffles at the earth around his hole. If I am very still I may see a timid deer emerge from the woods and bask in the sunshine among the old bone-white headstones, streaked with rust and black from a century of rains. My fingers, grown numb from the cold, are curled tightly around a manila folder containing my color-coded cemetery maps, which I designed on a computer using a spreadsheet program. I walk, kicking at the drifts of crackly, dead leaves, and read headstones.<br />
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The two women, who are selecting a space for their father, are very picky. They are Caribbean and Catholic and think that we bury people too close together. Each site, I tell them, is ten feet long and forty inches wide. They think their father needs more space, but they are unwilling to pay for it. They do not like any of the sites I have shown them. The first ones were too near the parkway. We have since moved away from the parkway. Now they say they don’t want a site with dead grass. It is fall, I tell them, all the grass dies in the fall. It will grow again in the spring. They don’t seem to be paying attention. They point to a large oak tree—the only tree of any size in this section—and they ask if there are any spaces available under the tree. No, I say, everyone asks that. Everyone wants to be under a tree. And I repeat what I’ve heard my boss, the cemetery manager, say: that tree won’t be there forever.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;"><em>To read more of this essay, look for my book </em></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;">Xylotheque<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">, available from the <a href="http://unmpress.com/books.php?ID=20000000005602&Page=book" target="_blank">University of New Mexico Press</a> and other online retailers. </i></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-50822962388249474232014-03-29T20:27:00.000-04:002014-03-29T20:28:41.659-04:00XylothequeWhen the box of books finally arrives, when I lift the top one out and hold it up like a newborn, feel its weight in my hands, trace the length of its spine, riffle its pages, marvel at the number of words that I have somehow put down on paper, it is all a little like giving birth, like seeing for the first time the face of the child that I felt kicking within me for so long, like touching the infant’s skin, holding the weight of that new being, marveling that somehow, I created this person. And it is also like a reunion, to finally meet this being I have thought of for so long. There is a keen feeling of recognition. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Oh, I have known you all along. Oh, there you are at last, and you are just as I expected. </i>Babies and books—both erupting suddenly into the world out of their long, hushed crafting. Babies and books—now I have two of each.<br />
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The five-year-old is laying out his list to Santa. It has three items. 1. A Lego set. 2. A bow and arrow. 3. An Egyptian mummy. Santa seems more pleased with this list, though he is not sure he can fulfill the mummy request. “Well, an Egyptian mummy kit,” the five-year-old clarifies. “I guess the mummy doesn’t have to be real.”</div>
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I am certainly biased, but I’ll say it anyway: she is the wisest eight-year-old I have ever known. Instead of a Christmas list, she wrote this letter.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-12334743337871274512013-11-06T11:55:00.000-05:002013-11-06T11:56:54.540-05:00Page ProofsFor so long—could it really be years of your life?—you, alone, have believed that the book is a book. Despite all evidence to the contrary—the scrawled-over manuscript pages that screamed <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">hopeless, unfinishable pipe dream</i>, the slippery words that you moved and added and omitted until you no longer understood their sense, and most especially the editors (a dozen, maybe more) who turned your work away, declaring it most decidedly <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">not </i>a book—you have continued to believe in your book’s essential bookness. The words, the paragraphs, the pages deserved to be wedded, bound together beneath a common cover. This was your stubborn, solitary belief. And though for years no one believed in your book—with the exception of a small handful of friends who share your lunacy—you kept sending it out into the world, hoping to infect someone with your lonely dream. <br />
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And one day—when, if you have to be honest, your unflagging belief had started to rub away—it happened. An editor called with good tidings. And now—now that you hold page proofs in your hands, now that a cover exists—you marvel that so many others are in agreement with you and your madness. A team—production editors, copyeditors, peer reviewers, writers of blurbs, graphic designers, marketing reps—a whole platoon, it seems, is now on your side, working to finish what you started years ago, confirming that intense, private belief you’ve kept for so long: that what you have created <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">is </i>a book.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8089030541242643088.post-21770636832959102032013-11-04T12:12:00.000-05:002013-11-04T12:13:01.389-05:00Photo/Text 7: OfferingsThey have brought me acorns, quinces, rose petals, catalpa pods, seashells, beads, bookmarks, broken coconut shells, folded notes the size of teeth, bluets pulled up by the roots, paper hearts, sheets of birch bark, leaves from many trees, fistfuls of dandelions, green tomatoes, chestnuts, plastic bags bursting with pine needles, branches with and without foliage, twigs, samaras, drawings, clay sculptures, sharpened pencils, unsharpened pencils, pumpkin stems, broken pens, the springs from pens, dead batteries, paintings, blocks, tiny wheels from lost cars, erasers, buttons, chalk, nailed together planks of wood, puzzle pieces, milkweed pods, hickory nuts, robin’s eggs, feathers, liquidambar seed pods, rocks, pieces of asphalt, uprooted seedlings, dead June bugs, living ladybugs, butterfly wings, speckled eggshell fragments, blackberries, raspberries, strawberries, sticky candies, too-small paper crowns, snail shells, ants, paperclips, screws, washers, lengths of twine, ribbons, pen caps, twist ties, macaroni jewelry, cattails, and just last week, three crabapples. “Is it OK,” I asked them, “if I just photograph the apples, and then we’ll leave them here for the birds? By photographing them, it’s like I’m keeping them forever.” Uncertain, they acquiesced, but as we walked away, they cast regretful looks back at their offerings.<br />
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